Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

6 Endorsed

822 D Street, San Rafael, CA 94901

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I enjoy working with mothers with ADHD, and new parents. For many moms with ADHD, parenting can feel overwhelming and isolating. They often compare themselves to other moms, feeling “less than” and like they’re struggling to keep up. There’s a constant pressure to mask your true needs and experiences to fit in, leading to confusion, exhaustion, and a sense of hiding their real self. For couples, the challenges of parenting can trap them in the same arguments, leaving them feeling unheard and disconnected. Beneath the tension, there’s a deep desire to reconnect and enjoy parenting together as a team, with shared joy and support.

I specialize in neurodivergent-affirming therapy, offering moms with ADHD a safe space to unmask, build self-trust, and embrace self-acceptance. For new parents, I provide couples therapy to help navigate parenting challenges, deepen connection, and develop effective communication. My goal is to see my clients thrive in their roles as parents and partners.

Together, we’ll work on cultivating deeper connections, self-acceptance, and resilience and effective communication tools. Reach out today to find the support you deserve. In our sessions, you’ll discover a space to embrace your true self, strengthen trust and understanding in your relationships, and build a family life that reflects your values.

Call or Email Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 466-8455

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901

(415) 466-8455

I see clients virtually and in person (50 mins), and I offer specialized outdoor trail therapy (75 mins) in Marin County.

$160 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Thank you for taking the time to explore my page.

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

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Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901

(415) 466-8455

I see clients virtually and in person (50 mins), and I offer specialized outdoor trail therapy (75 mins) in Marin County.

$160 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Thank you for taking the time to explore my page.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $160
Couple Sessions $185
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

I am out of network, but can help you navigate insurance claims and can offer a superbill if requested. Please reach out with any questions, we're happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

I am out of network, but can help you navigate insurance claims and can offer a superbill if requested. Please reach out with any questions, we're happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Qualifications

Pre-Licensed Professional: Katelyn Vandever

Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 120967 Supervised by Ali Vogt, LMFT (California / 47693) Katelyn Vandever
In Practice for 1 Year
Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BA in Psychology / 2019
Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BS in Nutrition / 2012
Attended Widener University, MSW, Graduated 2023

As an Associate Clinical Social Worker with an MSW & bachelor's degrees in Psychology and Nutrition, I provide integrative, holistic psychotherapy. Combining insights from each discipline, I support clients in addressing diverse needs and building resilience, helping them create meaning and balance.

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

ADHD
Anxiety
Codependency
Depression
Divorce
Grief
Infertility
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues

I work with parents feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in repetitive conflicts. In our initial sessions, we'll explore the core challenges and create a personalized plan to address them. Many clients experience a renewed sense of connection and balance within the first month, with ongoing improvements as we build a supportive and authentic family dynamic together.

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

6 Endorsements

Ashlyn Acikalin

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC

Katelyn's compassionate and empowering approach makes her a fantastic therapist. Her ability to offer heartfelt support while encouraging clients to discover their own strengths fosters both healing and personal growth. I highly recommend her!

Erin McQueen

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Katelyn is a warm, playful, and creative therapist! Her experience and training in both social work and the performing arts provides a wonderful blend of evidence-based and experiential treatment offerings fostering rich authenticity and connection.

Jenny Werba

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, APCC, PMH-C

Katelyn is a skilled and compassionate clinician. She brings to her client interactions authenticity and a high level of attunement, creating an environment of insight and growth for clients.

Lucy O'Dwyer

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Katelyn is dynamic and direct. If you are looking for compassion from an authentic space, Katelyn is the therapist for you. Katelyn meets clients where they are at and helps them move through whatever is keeping them stuck.

Cassandra Beck

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Katelyn excels in neurodivergent-affirming care, supporting moms with ADHD and clients with substance use or dual diagnoses. Her warm, empathetic style makes clients feel understood. I've seen them thrive and transform under her care. I highly recommend!

Ali Vogt

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Katelyn provides a compassionate approach, skillfully following her clients' leads to uncover meaningful insights. She specializes in supporting neurodivergent new parents, helping both parents and baby thrive.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Family / Marital
Humanistic
Integrative
Interpersonal
Narrative
Person-Centered
Psychodynamic
Relational
Strength-Based

I offer neurodivergent-affirming, integrative therapy focused on each client's unique experience. Using psychodynamic methods, we explore underlying patterns, while humanistic principles guide us toward self-acceptance and authentic growth. My approach values the neurodiverse experience fostering resilience, insight, and meaningful change that aligns with each individual's strengths and values.

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Location

Primary Location

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901

(415) 466-8455

Email us

Website

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

I see clients virtually and in person (50 mins), and I offer specialized outdoor trail therapy (75 mins) in Marin County.

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

I see clients virtually and in person (50 mins), and I offer specialized outdoor trail therapy (75 mins) in Marin County.

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW